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RHN
02-10-2006, 06:14 PM
The alarm rings. One eye opens and as you reach for the alarm clock to switch off the ringing, your eye catches a glimpse of the time: 8:30am. Why is it that all the motivation you had the night before disappears the minute that alarm clock rings. You drag yourself to get dressed, and hope you make in time for calculus, MIS or accounting. Driving to university you realize how thirsty you are, you grab the bottle of water then realize its Ramadan.

“BEEEEEEP” you hear suddenly, and press the breaks. All hell breaks loose as every unimaginable curse words come to mind. Once again you realize its Ramadan, you look the other way, accelerate and smile at the driver. Your thoughts will not conquer you this month.

You enter the class and the professor’s hyper “Good Morning” makes you enter the next phase of your awake state. You drag your self to your seat, open your laptop, check your e-mail and your eyes start to close slowly. “Class is over, don’t forget the assignment is due next class” the phrase that awakens you, ringing in your head like the alarm clock earlier this morning.

Getting out of class you try to find the first empty couch that comes your way, they all seem to be occupied by napping students, I guess the floor of the study room will make do for now.

The Athan wakes you up and you realize you have to go pray ‘thuhur’ as you pray jama’a with the others you realize all the things you want to ask Allah for: passing that test, guidance in that situation, and health for you and your family. A sudden relief overcomes you and you’re ready to do some work.

Three classes have passed its now 4:30pm, time to go home. Racing maniacs on the tight roads, I must be patient after all this isn’t like any other month. As you enter your house and get ready to break your fast you see the kids running around, your mother asking you to eat, your father indulging in his meal. “May Allah accept my fast.”

Indeed this month is different. I may be a little bit lazier than usual, a little slower, but it’s the little things that count. The patience, the spiritual aura, the family gatherings.

A.A.Al-Nasser
02-10-2006, 11:17 PM
seriously..... what u wrote has touched my heart :)

i love the way u think, and i love the way u express it :)
thank you dear...

Hassan Al-Ibrahim
03-10-2006, 06:22 PM
salam sister

Well one thing that i miss about Ramadan abroad is being able to live ts casually along with friends

I still remember being in the middle of an exam while Maghrib is calling and how it felt back then

Once am done with my exam i grab my books and i hit the way to the masjid so i pray maghrib with some of the other students and have our Iftar together .. so u should be thankful to god that you at least have a family here and u can go back and have ur iftar with them

I still remember being in the middle of labs or classes and gettin the cookies off my bag to share it with other students once maghrib calls


I still remember braking my fast or having my Suhoor with my dorm mate .. our suhor was not so fancy just a thin crispy pizza from Dominos


But seriously speaking Ramadan back in the US was way better and maybe because of the challenges and the difiiculties our spirituals were high and we enjoyed it back then

RHN
03-10-2006, 11:44 PM
:) exactly my point... i wrote the story above for the uni newsletter and just thought id share it, it just has like5 or 6 peoples lives in one...
It cant be denied that ramthan is experienced its best 'm3a il 3ashra' with your family and friends... ou inshalla being back really makes you appreciate what you have... but even when you were abroad.. it was the little things that mattered, that made a difference, the cookie you shared with your friend or the little Eid gathering you had...

May Allah accept our fast and allow us to live to see next Ramathan with our families :D

Jassim Al-Naama
04-10-2006, 01:07 AM
salam sister

i am speechless

dont really know what 2 say

f i said i like what u wrote abt ramadan then, i ll be underevaluating the greatness of this month ... cuz i hope i could find new words in the dictionary to be used here instead of (i like )

f i say .. what u wrote keep me thinking seriously abt the past two yrs while i was in Australia ,, then i have 2 say thanks cuz u remind me of those unforgotful
times of living abroad
and living Ramadan there :)


keep writing sister .. u do have a bright future in this field

RHN
04-10-2006, 10:46 AM
...Thank you for the feedback
... you really made me think about an ending, the reflection we have when ramathan ends... and I pray and I hope that we can utilize every moment we have in this graet month... as every ramathan ends, we think about all the things we COULD have done... why is it when we're living in something, we're always sure we have tomorrow to make it up

so i have a proposal... many people around the world, have new year resolutions, they believe since a new years coming, its time to start a new self.

...Let us have a new ramathan self resolution...

?Whats your resolution this Ramthan?